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MARRIAGE PROBLEMS


The marriage is an institution for continuance of mankind. It is both a bliss and a bane. Problems in marriage cause stress both at mental and physical levels.

In fact, it is one of the major factors for the achievements of any person. It also coincides with the age group of a person, when he is fit to do anything constructive and at his own. The most active life of a person is between the years 25 to 50. This is the time when one can do anything with zeal and for promoting not only his own generation but for the growth of the society and the world at large. He/she requires a permanent partner for deliberations and taking decisions in the form of a spouse, who caters to his/her physical needs also.

The attainments of a person in life are solely dependent on his/her successful married life. That is why in the horoscope the house in front of the ascendant has been allotted for the marriage inter-alia other things.

So after the house of fortune and the ascendant, which sustain the person in his early life, the next in importance stands the seventh house, the house of marriage. Because only that person, who is blessed with the opportunities of a peaceful and happy married life, can maintain sanity and contribute his/her share for the growth of the society both in materialistic and spiritual fields.

Whether a person will have marriage problem or mental compatibility with his/her spouse or not can be judged by consideration of relationship between the houses ruling the marital affairs and the sixth house.

MARRIAGE SIGNIFICATORS

(1) The lord of the seventh house containing a mooltrikona sign is the primary significator of marriage. In case there is no mooltrikona sign in the seventh house, then the lord of the next mooltrikona house signifying marriage (the second, fourth, eighth or twelfth house) is considered. For each ascendant, the primary significator of marriage is:-

Aries - Venus
Taurus - The Sun
Gemini - Jupiter
Cancer - The Sun
Leo - Saturn
Virgo - Venus
Libra - Mars
Scorpio - Jupiter
Sagittarius - The Moon
Capricorn - The Moon
Aquarius - The Sun
Pisces - Mercury

(2) Venus and Jupiter are general significators of marriage for males and females, respectively.

(3) Marriage can also take place: in the sub-periods of the lords of the remaining mooltrikona houses signifying marriage; and in the sub-periods of the strong planets placed in the houses signifying marriage. These planets become secondary significators of marriage.

If the primary significator of marriage and the general significator of marriage are strong and there is no affliction to the most effective points of the houses signifying marriage, the marriage takes place at the appropriate time. The good strength of Venus hastens the process.

DELAY IN MARRAIGE

The delay in marriageis caused by:

(1) the most effective points of the seventh, fourth and/or second houses being afflicted;

(2) The primary significator of marriage and/or the secondary significators being afflicted and/or weak for other reasons.

(3) The general significator of marriage being afflicted and/or weak for other reasons.

(4) The lord of the fourth house being utterly weak.

(5) The lords of the eighth and/or twelfth houses containing a mooltrikona sign being afflicted and/or weak for other reasons.

(6) Whenever the severe affliction involves the seventh house in the case of male natives they lack confidence in their physical power and delay the decision of marriage.

The influence of the functional malefic planets delays while the influence of the most malefic planet delays inordinately and/or denies. The inauspicious influence of the most malefic planet cannot be mellowed without persistent performance of the appropriate astral remedies.

The good position of significator planets with benefic influences on these, provide the native with timely and happy marriage making the life blissful.

PROBLEMS IN MARRIAGE

If the significator planets of marriage are weak they make the marriage unhappy on any of the following accounts:

1. The spouse may be ill tempered.

2. The spouse may have a dull attitude towards physical relationship.

3. The spouse/self may lack good health.

4. The marriage may be considerably delayed.

5. The birth of children may be delayed/children may suffer illness or early death/lack of progeny.

6. Lack of mental compatibility.

7. Divorce/separation due to any of the foregoing factors individually or collectively in the unfavorable periods in operation.

8. The vacuum in life created by marriage being denied.

9. Impact of separation forces i.e. the impact of the functional malefic planets on the houses/significators of marriage.

MANAGING MARRIAGE PROBLEMS THROUGH HOROSCOPE MATCHING

Cent percent marital bliss is a rare phenomenon. In some cases the discords in marital affairs are momentary. Vedic Astrology can be helpful in avoiding / managing the circumstances leading to the unhappiness in marriage by matching the horoscopes for mental compatibilities, supplementing the planetary drawbacks in the horoscopes of intending matches and seeing whether main period and the sub-periods in operation will have any bad effect on the marital alliance. Although it is said that marriages are settled in heaven, yet there is tremendous help which can be provided by Vedic Astrology in the manner mentioned in the preceding sentence and suggestion of remedial measures for weak planetary combinations as well as for the afflictions of malefic planets. Advance astrological advice and astral remedies for the impending circumstances provide mental strength to the natives for bearing the tensions and strains.

MARRIAGE PROBLEMS - MANAGING THROUGH ASTROLOGY REMEDIES

The problem of delay in marriage is managed through the application of astrology remedies in the form of use of a special power Kavach and the propitiatory remedies for the functional malefic planets which are obstructing the marriage.

Similarly, the problems in marriage including the problems in child birth are helped through the application of astrology remedies.

MARRIAGE PROBLEMS - CASE STUDIES

We would cite a few cases where marital happiness eluded the married partners because of the problems in some of the fields mentioned above because of the weak/afflicted, ill-placed and malefically associated significators.

Female born, 20th June, 1943, 0640 Hrs. 34.12N 74.24E
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Rahu-Ketu axis exactly afflicts the most effective points of the second, fourth, eighth and twelfth houses relating to happy married life in addition to the close nodal affliction to Venus, Mars and Saturn. The lord of the house of marital happiness, Mercury, is badly placed. The lord of the house of family, the Moon, is in extreme infancy and badly placed. The placement of Jupiter in exaltation in the second house was of very little use due to the weakness of its dispositor, the Moon, and exact affliction to other factors brought out above. The placement of the Sun, the lord of the house of initiatives, has played the role of a sheet anchor in the life of the native. Her marital life was of a very short span, completely lacking in harmony. The native's experience with marriage was so sad that she did not venture for a re-marriage.

Male born 10th April, 1948, 0400 Hrs
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The Sun is the prime determinant of marriage in this case. The Sun is weak as it is in old age and placed in the second house the most effective point of which is closely afflicted by the most malefic planet. Mars in debilitation and Saturn, the ascendant lord, occupy the sixth house jointly. One of the major affects of such a placement in the sixth house is that such a person cannot go well/adjust with others including the spouse. There is no benefic aspect on the conjunction. The house of family is occupied by the functional malefic Mercury, which besides being debilitated closely influences the most effective point of the second house. The marriage of the native was completely on the rocks due to a long spell of separation and litigation. During the main period of the Moon the native faced separation, legal suits from wife for criminal charges and finally a divorce suit which was finalized only in the sub-period of Mercury during the main period of Mars. Because of persistent problems the person's behavior became close to being insane in spite of his being professionally well qualified. Jupiter's aspect to the Moon, helped in giving him some solace and keeping away from the idea of suicide.

Female born 16th November, 1957, 0810 Hrs. 28.39N 77.13E
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As there is no mooltrikona sign in the seventh house, Jupiter ruling the second house becomes the prime determinant of marriage. The most effective point of the second house is exactly under the affliction of the most malefic planet which turns Jupiter weak. Ketu closely afflicts the Moon and Venus. The functional malefic Mars is badly placed in the twelfth house. The functional malefics Venus, Rahu and Ketu are placed exactly on the most effective point of the houses and afflict the houses occupied and aspected. Saturn being lord of the fourth house ruling the domestic happiness closely influences the ascendant and the seventh house and deals with unfavorable influences to some extent. The severe afflictions involve the planets and houses governing general and marital happiness. During the main periods of the afflicted Moon followed by the main period of the afflicted functional malefic Mars, the married life remained full of bickering and the native suffered ill treatment at the hands of her in-laws.

Female born 10th February, 1954, 0515 Hrs. 28.37N 77.10E
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The prime determinant for marriage is the Moon which also happens to be most malefic planet. Mars ruling the fifth house is badly placed in the twelfth house and is weak. The Moon is close to the most effective point of the fifth house. The strains in married life developed due to lack of progeny. Venus, the lord of the house of fulfillment of desires is weak due to its being in the state of infancy. Jupiter, the putrakaraka, occupies the sixth house. In sapthamsa Jupiter is badly placed and the Sun is with Ketu.

Female born 10th October, 1945 2230 Hrs. 32.02N 72.40E
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Jupiter is the prime determinant of marriage in this case. Jupiter is weak due to the exact affliction of Rahu and Ketu to the most effective point of its mooltrikona house, combustion and weak dispositor. The lords of the fourth and the seventh houses are combust. The Moon ruling the house of family is debilitated and placed in the sixth house signifying conflicts. The houses connected with the spouse and general happiness are destroyed due to utter weakness, bad placement and exact afflictions. For those born in the ascending sign of Gemini the debilitation of the Moon is not conducive for the marital happiness as the Moon, being the lord of the second house ruling family, goes to the house of disputes. The marriage of the native was fairly late in life and that too turned out to be a case of cheating. Her husband was already having a keep and maintained illicit relationship with her even after marriage. The native after trying her best for achieving a peaceful married life had to make up her mind for a divorce.

Special significance of Jupiter in female Nativities

The role of Jupiter in the male nativities is not less important but it has got additional importance in the case of females and more especially in the case of Indian females as it is significator for husband and male child. The early life of the female native is conditioned by the status of her parents but life after attaining adulthood i.e. before marriage and after marriage is mainly conditioned by the position of Jupiter in her nativity. We do not mean that the seventh house and its lord do not have any say. They do have a say along with all other houses connected with the marriage i.e. the house of family, general happiness, bed comforts and marital tie. Yet, for a peaceful married life conducive to attainments of higher order, a strong Jupiter is a must.

A weak Jupiter in a female nativity results in delay in marriage, lack of or suffering on account of progeny, ill-health, etc. Such a native herself may also be selfish, self centered, unkind and dissatisfied if the Sun, too, is weak.

Jupiter is also significator for discharge of duties and maintaining traditions. Those natives, who have a weak and/or afflicted Jupiter at birth, do not conform to the traditions and do not discharge the duties expected of them. If such natives are females and their husbands are of assertive type, there are more chances of separation and divorce. The pursuits of life become chaotic and confused. The natives, themselves, do not understand the meaning of their life and usually suffer throughout the life. Jupiter is also significator of divine grace and its weakness shows the requirement of the same in the life very badly.

Remedial measures in case of such natives give results after rigorous performance under the able guidance. Such natives do tend towards remedial measures but lack in their performance with regularity. By way of a few charts we will see the sufferings caused by weak and afflicted Jupiter to female natives.

Female born 11th March, 1950, 1408 Hrs. 28.39N 77.13E
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The lady remained unmarried. The prime determinant of marriage in this case is the Sun which is placed in the eighth house and becomes weak. The significator, Jupiter, is in extreme old age and debilitated. Though there are other combinations, yet the contribution of weak Jupiter is one of the important factors. Jupiter is a functional malefic planet and closely afflicts the most effective points of eighth, twelfth, second and fourth houses. Main period/sub-period of all planets connected with marriage has not blessed the native with marriage. All formulae for timing of marriage become redundant if the planets signifying the event are weak and afflicted. The Moon is weak and Mars suffers from the nodal affliction. In this case the native received marriage proposals from widowers or the men advanced in age and addicted to vices which were not acceptable to her and hence the result.

Female born 30th Nov. 1959, 0220 Hrs. 28.39N 77.13E
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Venus becomes the prime determinant of marriage. Venus is weak due to debilitation both in rasi and navamsa charts and being placed in the house the most effective point of which is under the close affliction of the functional malefic Saturn. Jupiter is lord of the fourth house as well as significator for husband. It is combust. The lords of the eleventh, first and eighth houses are also combust. Because of the weakness of most of the planets though married yet the lady is not enjoying her marital life due to persistent and chronic ill health of her husband making him physically totally incapacitated. The placement of Saturn on the most effective point of the fourth house made the marriage inharmonious, as well. The close affliction of the eighth lord to the lord of the ascendant reduces the life span of the native while the affliction of the eighth lord to the debilitated Moon caused numerous problems to the elder sisters.

Female born 20th July, 1954, 2215 Hrs. 28.39N 77.13E
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Mercury is the prime determinant of marriage in this case. The significator for husband, Jupiter, suffers from close nodal affliction. The functional malefic Saturn, the lord of the house of losses, is placed in the house of marital tie while the lord of the house of marital tie is placed in the house of disputes. The lord of the house of disputes is closely conjunct with the most effective point of the fifth house. The placement of the Moon close to the most effective point of the ascendant made the native quite emotional and self-willed due to the close influence of the sixth lord on the most effective point of the fifth house. The native had pre-marital love affairs. The marriage of the lady survived for a period of approximately one year in a state of dissonance. She was not blessed with male progeny. Her conduct was one of the main factors of the marital dispute. The placement of Mars near the most effective point of the tenth house blessed the native with a job.

Female born 26th August 1955, 1420 Hrs. 29.19N 75.44E
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Jupiter becomes the prime determinant of marriage. Jupiter is also the significator for husband and is weak as it is debilitated in navamsa and its dispositor Moon is debilitated. The functional malefic planets, Venus and Mars, closely afflict the Sun. Both Mars and Venus are combust and closely afflict each other. The weakness and affliction of the lord of the twelfth house robs one of the continuity of married life. The navamsa ascendant lord, Saturn, is also debilitated in navamsa and associated with Rahu. The native was married twice but the marriage survived for a few days in both the cases. Thereafter, all efforts of the parents of the native could not bring a marriage and happiness in her life. From the 20th year of life to the 40th year she had the main period of combust functional malefic and afflicted, Venus. No planet is strong enough to bring marital happiness in the face of close affliction to combust Venus.

CHART 61: Female born 8th November, 1959, 1720 Hrs. 77E13, 28N39, INDIA.

Venus becomes the prime determinant of marriage and the Moon signifies the marital happiness. This lady was married at the age of 28 years. The marriage turned out to be totally inharmonious and was disturbed with separation. There had been no child. The lord of the seventh house is debilitated and badly placed in the house of conflicts. The weak Venus is also closely afflicted by the Rahu-Ketu axis. The seventh house is occupied by combust Mars and the debilitated Sun, the lord of the fifth house. The significator for husband, Jupiter, occupies the eighth house in close conjunction with the functional malefic Mercury, ruling the house of conflicts. In navamsa the Moon occupies its sign of debilitation.

CHART 62: Female born 10th October, 1945, 2230 Hrs. 72E40, 32N02, INDIA.

Jupiter becomes the prime determinant of marriage and Mercury becomes the prime determinant of marital happiness being lord of the fourth house. The continuity of the family is ruled by the Moon. Mercury ruling marital happiness is not only combust but is also in extreme old age. Rahu-Ketu are on the most effective point of the houses of their location and afflict the houses occupied and aspected. Jupiter, who is the lord of the seventh house, is combust and the seventh house suffers from exact affliction of Rahu-Ketu axis. In navamsa, the ascendant is occupied by Rahu.

The marriage was inordinately delayed and was full of tensions and dissonance. The native was deceived. The husband was already having a permanent keep. The marriage ended in a divorce after all efforts of the native for bringing the husband to the right path failed.

CHART 63: Female born 22nd June, 1966, 0900 Hrs. 77E13, 28N39, INDIA.

The badly placed weak Sun becomes the prime determinant of marriage in this case while weak and exactly afflicted Venus becomes the prime determinant of marital happiness. Ketu closely aspects the lords of the third and fourth houses and afflicts them. The initiatives of the native caused persistent sufferings in life due to failures in all her ventures. The placement of the Moon close to the most effective point of the ascendant made the native quite emotional. As Rahu is in degree conjunction with Venus, it hastened the first marriage in Venus sub-period of Venus main period and played the mischief. The marital alliance ended within a few days. The native was divorced and remarriage took place in April, 1986. With the help of the astrological remedial measures the second marriage survives in spite of the close afflictions and the weakness of Jupiter, the significator for husband.

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